Oral is one of lifes great pleasures and I can happily indulge for hours! Giving oral is fantastic, particularly when genitals are shaved or well trimmed - this can be arranged! Then there's the penis, I love the penis. I love the look of them, the feel, their reactions, their affects on their attached person. I love their imagination. Squirting (otherwise known as gushing or female ejaculation) I do, easily and repeatedly. Makes a diabolical mess but I love it, the g spot being second only to the clitoris as all time favourite. I have never enjoyed toys finding them, ironically, very plastic and lifeless. Masturbation is first and foremost erotic, I have always loved watching or being watched by my lover.

I am genuinely Bi though the type of woman I am attracted to is limited. She is invariably similar to myself, small bust, petite and earthy. She wears minimal makeup, has a very subtle femininity combined with confidence and a very sexy stubborn streak. Also Russian, I love Russian women! My attraction to such a woman can often be more intense than to my ideal man although I have no desire to be in a relationship with her, it is a man who I want to come home to.

Attitude is everything. I clearly remember a gentlemans claim that he had learnt to please the lady first so he could then get what he wanted. I struggle to imagine a greater turn off than firstly, feeling that your lover is only 'doing for you' so you are then obliged to return the 'favor'. Then, secondly, 'returning the favor' knowing your partner believes you are only doing so because you now owe him/ her. Sex in my world is either mutual or it isn't happening, it is intense and reciprocated. A vital part of my life.